Aunties

5 Must-Read Poems about Aunties

These poems explore familial relationships. Specifically those with an individual’s aunt. They could be told from the perspective of a niece, nephew, or someone who has a non-biological relationship with a woman they consider their aunt.

Although there are few commonly read poems that touch on this subject, there are several written in different genres and styles that convey the love that can be shared (or the love that’s missing) in aunt/niece/nephew relationships.

Many of these poems are loving and explore bonding moments where two people come to know one another better. But, others are more complicated and depict challenges in family dynamics that many readers are likely to feel connected to.

Presents from My Aunts in Pakistan

by Moniza Alvi

‘Presents from My Aunts in Pakistan’ navigates a girl’s bicultural identity, reflecting on gifts from Pakistan that evoke longing.

'Presents from My Aunts in Pakistan' does a brilliant job of using the narrator's aunts as a symbol of both familiarity and closeness while emphasising the large geographical and cultural gap between them. On the one hand, their contact is a reminder of home yet it also serves to remind the speaker that their home is no longer Pakistan, but England. Thus the aunts symbolise a kind of cultural dissonance.

They sent me a salwar kameez

           peacock-blue,

                 and another

glistening like an orange split open,

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The Ballad of Aunt Geneva

by Marilyn Nelson

Marilyn Nelson’s ‘The Ballad of Aunt Geneva’ is about a Black woman’s life, relationships, work, and the rumors about her character.

The poem expertly captures the kind of folklore which can exist within extended families where, in spite of the close familial bonds between its members, rumours and speculation can be rife. Nelson's depiction of Aunt Geneva is shrouded in mystery and reflects the manner in which we tend to imagine the lives of our older relatives as we grow up.

Geneva was a wild one

Geneva was a tart.

Geneva met a blue-eyed boy

And gave away her heart.

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Aunt Helen

by T.S. Eliot

‘Aunt Helen’ presents a strange elegy that, in a detached tone, paints the world’s indifference instead of lamenting death.

'Aunt Helen' includes the topic of aunties, as evident in the title. The poem is an elegy written by the speaker after his aunt "Miss Helen Slingsby" death. The speaker paints the picture of an unconcerned world in an indifferent tone in the poem.

Miss Helen Slingsby was my maiden aunt,

And lived in a small house near a fashionable square

Cared for by servants to the number of four.

Now when she died there was silence in heaven

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Aunt Jennifer’s Tigers

by Adrienne Rich

Adrienne Rich’s ‘Aunt Jennifer’s Tigers’ critiques the oppression of women in marriages using images of sewn tigers.

The poem explores the role of aunts insofar as Jennifer occupies a peripheral but crucial symbolic role in the speaker's life. Through her, the speaker learns about what women have endured in traditional marriages through the generations. The fact that she will eventually die in a similar state makes the speaker learn about life's truth.

Aunt Jennifer's tigers prance across a screen,

Bright topaz denizens of a world of green.

They do not fear the men beneath the tree;

They pace in sleek chivalric certainty.

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Out to Old Aunt Mary’s

by James Whitcomb Riley

‘Out to Old Aunt Mary’s’ by James Whitcomb Riley juxtaposes memories of carefree youth with the passage of time, underlying the lasting significance of the memories

While the poem does not primarily address the subject of aunties, it does dwell on the character of Aunt Mary. Beautiful recollections are related to the speaker and his brother's visits to their aunt. In the poem, the term "aunt" implies a sense of comfort and joy in her presence. The word also emphasizes the significance of familial relationships in the formation of children's memories and emotions.

Wasn't it pleasant, O brother mine,

In those old days of the lost sunshine

Of youth—when the Saturday's chores were through,

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