15+ Insightful Poems about Cheaters

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Poems about cheaters usually focus on one person experiencing their partner’s unfaithfulness. Poets explore the ways that cheating affects relationships, individuals’ self-worth, and the way that someone understands or trusts other people.

In poems about cheaters, readers can expect to find accounts of the way that a relationship began and how it ended. These poems may begin optimistically before the poet’s speaker introduces a world-shaking revelation–that their partner has been romantically involved with someone else. The extent of the cheating will also vary depending on the situation that the speaker is depicting, as will the way that the person being cheated on reacts to the news.

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Part VI: The Merchant’s Tale

by Geoffrey Chaucer

Part VI of Geoffrey Chaucer’s ‘The Merchant’s Tale’ explores moral values as May and Damian begin their affair.

This section of 'The Merchant's Tale' focuses heavily on cheating and those who perpetrate it. A squire confesses his desire to his master's wife, which she reciprocates. The two begin an affair in secret, not alluding to any change within their relationship. However, the moral implications of this act are muddied by the circumstances in which the cheating occurs. The squire's master is an old, lecherous man, who selected young May to be his wife. She is given no choice in the marriage and is treated as a sexual servant to her husband. As such, the poet forces the reader to decide whether it is a black and white moral situation, or whether it is coloured by shades of grey.

Now wol I speke of woful Damyan,

That langwissheth for love, as ye shul heere;

Therfore I speke to hym in this manere:

I seye, "O sely Damyan, allas!

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Part VII: The Merchant’s Tale

by Geoffrey Chaucer

In Part VII of ‘The Merchant’s Tale’, Chaucer delves deep into symbolism as Damian and May make the final arrangements for their affair.

This section of 'The Merchant's Tale' focuses heavily on cheating and those who perpetrate it. However, the moral implications of this act are muddied by the circumstances in which the cheating occurs. Damian's master is an old, lecherous man, who selected young May to be his wife. She is given no choice in the marriage and is treated as a sexual servant to her husband. As such, the poet forces the reader to decide whether it is a black and white moral situation, or whether it is colored by shades of grey.

Somme clerkes holden that felicitee

Stant in delit, and therfore certeyn he,

This noble Januarie, with al his myght,

In honest wyse, as longeth to a knyght,

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Medusa

by Carol Ann Duffy

‘Medusa’ by Carol Ann Duffy reinterprets and retells the myth of Medusa with a feminist lens in a modern setting.

A suspicion, a doubt, a jealousy

grew in my mind,

which turned the hairs on my head to filthy snakes,

as though my thoughts

hissed and spat on my scalp.

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Part VIII: The Merchant’s Tale

by Geoffrey Chaucer

In Part VIII, while May sets her adulterous plans into motion, deities Pluto and Proserpina debate about the nature of women.

In Part VIII of 'The Merchant's Tale', May puts her plans of infidelity into action as she arranges to meet Damian in the garden. She manipulates her husband into unwittingly helping her achieve this goal. The Roman mythological deities Pluto and Proserpina make an appearance, with the former denouncing May for intending to cheat on her husband. Proserpina, however, highlights the circumstances which have caused May to seek relations outside of her marriage, particularly the previously unbecoming sexual behaviour of her husband, January.

This Januarie, as blynd as is a stoon,

With Mayus in his hand, and no wight mo,

Into his fresshe gardyn is ago,

And clapte to the wyket sodeynly.

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Sonnet 138

by William Shakespeare

Sonnet 138, ‘When my love swears that she is made of truth,’ explores the complex dynamics of love, deception, and trust in a relationship. 

From the speaker's narration of his relationship, he and his beloved seem cheaters as they lie to each other. Moreover, the speaker neither confronts his beloved nor stops lying to her despite knowing she is aware of his lie and still accepts it as truth. He seemingly expresses his guilt in this poem by confessing the truths of his relationship. The speaker also cheats on his conscience as he rejoices in illusory love while doubting his lover's faithfulness.

When my love swears that she is made of truth,

I do believe her though I know she lies,

That she might think me some untutored youth,

Unlearned in the world's false subtleties.

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Sonnet 142

by William Shakespeare

Sonnet 142, ‘Love is my sin, and thy dear virtue hate,’ explores the dynamics of desire and morality in the speaker’s relationship.

The beloved lady is a cheater in the sonnet as she has affairs with other men. Alternatively, the jaded speaker confesses his own deceit as he has also falsely professed his love to the lady while feeling mere sexual passion for her. The sonnet delves into the complexity of deception and cheating as the speaker reproves his actions while the lady doesn't censure her unfaithfulness.

Love is my sin, and thy dear virtue hate,

Hate of my sin, grounded on sinful loving:

O! but with mine compare thou thine own state,

And thou shalt find it merits not reproving;

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The Telephone Call

by Fleur Adcock

Adcock’s ‘The Telephone Call’ humorously navigates the illusion of luck, emphasizing life’s experiences over material wealth.

The theme of deception is dominant in the poem. The poem describes a scheme that offers an attractive reward. The conversation shows a rather elaborate plan to lie and manipulate for personal gain. Adcock employs humor and irony to reveal the fact that people are gullible and can be easily manipulated and thus reveal the machinations of the contemporary consumer culture and the effects of being deceived by false advertisements.

They asked me 'Are you sitting down?

Right? This is Universal Lotteries,'

they said. 'You've won the top prize,

the Ultra-super Global Special.

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Lord Randall

by Anonymous

‘Lord Randall’ shows a mother and son’s conversation about what he did that day and ate for dinner, which takes a dark turn.

"Oh where ha'e ye been, Lord Randall my son?

O where ha'e ye been, my handsome young man?"

"I ha'e been to the wild wood: mother, make my bed soon,

For I’m weary wi' hunting, and fain wald lie down."

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Sonnet 151

by William Shakespeare

Sonnet 151, ‘Love is too young to know what conscience is,’ navigates the complexities of love and lust in the speaker’s relationship.

The sonnet presents cheaters often found in romantic relationships. The speaker's beloved is a 'gentle cheater' and maintains affairs and sexual relationships with other men. The speaker is unable to fight for love and his soul and stands with her in her affairs as he has a similar lust for his beloved as she loves other men. Thus, both the speaker and his beloved are cheaters in their romantic relationship, pretending to be in love.

Love is too young to know what conscience is,

Yet who knows not conscience is born of love?

Then, gentle cheater, urge not my amiss,

Lest guilty of my faults thy sweet self prove:

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Oenone

by Alfred Lord Tennyson

Alfred Lord Tennyson’s ‘Oenone’ weaves heart-wrenching verses as Oenone, spurned by Paris, faces solitude, despair, and a haunting future.

'Oenone' explores the painful theme of betrayal and infidelity, depicting the aftermath of Paris's unfaithfulness. The poem delves into the emotional turmoil experienced by Oenone, highlighting the devastating consequences of cheating on a profound and personal level. Tennyson's nuanced portrayal captures the complexities of trust shattered, resonating with the universal emotions associated with the theme of infidelity.

There lies a vale in Ida, lovelier

Than all the valleys of Ionian hills.

The swimming vapour slopes athwart the glen,

Puts forth an arm, and creeps from pine to pine,

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The Rival

by Sylvia Plath

Sylvia Plath’s ‘The Rival’ is about betrayal and conflict, comparing the rival to the cold, distant moon and capturing the frustration of unresolved tension.

Cheating is a big part of the speaker’s emotional struggle. The rival represents the person involved in the affair, and the emotional fallout from that is intense. The poem shows how cheating leaves a mark, not just because of the act itself, but the way it keeps haunting the speaker. The rival’s actions make it hard for the speaker to escape the pain and reminders of betrayal.

If the moon smiled, she would resemble you.

You leave the same impression

Of something beautiful, but annihilating.

Both of you are great light borrowers.

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Sonnet 110

by William Shakespeare

‘Sonnet 110’ or ‘Alas, ’tis true I have gone here and there’ is about the speaker’s realization that he only wants the Fair Youth.

The speaker in the poem is the cheater who involves himself in multiple affairs while committed to a relationship. He openly confesses his cheating to his lover, acknowledging his misjudgment - 'Most true it is that I have look'd on truth.' The poem's thematics revolve around the speaker's realization that cheating was an oversight from the truth, and it unfolds as an earnest plea for forgiveness and reconciliation.

Alas! 'tis true, I have gone here and there,

And made my self a motley to the view,

Gored mine own thoughts, sold cheap what is most dear,

Made old offences of affections new;

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The Keeper

by Jackie Kay

‘The Keeper’ explores the emotional weight of secrets, blending surreal imagery and inner struggle to depict betrayal, longing, and the fragility of truth.

'The Keeper' faintly addresses the theme of cheating through the speaker's reflections on her partner's dishonesty and the emotional fallout from it. The speaker's sense of betrayal indicates that her partner may be unfaithful, leaving her to deal with feelings of isolation and confusion.

Nowadays there are too many things to hide.

I am a keeper. Secrets are my caged animals.

I feed them things. Things they will like.

Each day, a ritual; I keep time, though

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After the Battle

by Victor Hugo

In ‘After the Battle,’ Victor Hugo explores compassion amid war, highlighting the moral strength of kindness despite betrayal.

This poem addresses the themes of deceit and betrayal. It portrays the wounded Spaniard as a betrayer when he points a pistol at the poet's father despite initially seeking help. The poem underscores the unexpected treachery of individuals, highlighting the consequences of deceit in the midst of conflict and moral choices.

MY father, hero of benignant mien,

On horseback visited the gory scene,

After the battle as the evening fell,

And took with him a trooper loved right well,

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Late Love

by Jackie Kay

‘Late Love’ explores the transformative power of love, contrasting its passionate heights with the fading memories and passage of time.

The poem indirectly addresses the topic of cheaters through its contrasting descriptions and introspective musings. While not explicitly focusing on cheaters, the poem hints at the potential for hidden or secret relationships. The portrayal of lovers as secret and above the order of things suggests a potential for deceit and infidelity. The poem captures the complexities of love, acknowledging the potential for dishonesty and betrayal within intimate connections.

How they strut about, people in love,

how tall they grow, pleased with themselves,

their hair, glossy, their skin shining.

They don’t remember who they have been.

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