Family

15+ Must-Read Poems about Family

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Poems about family delve into the intricate tapestry of relationships, the ties that bind, and the transformative power of love. These verses celebrate the bonds of kinship, exploring the depths of familial connections and the profound impact they have on our lives.

In these poetic compositions, the family becomes a sanctuary, a source of support, and a foundation of identity. These poems explore the complexities of family dynamics, capturing the joys, challenges, and deep emotional ties that span generations.

Family House

by Gillian Clarke

Clarke’s ‘Family House’ tells the story of memory and change, examining the evolution of a childhood home over time.

‘Family House’ by Gillian Clarke is one of the best poems about family, it is a free verse poem that explores a speaker’s cherished childhood memories. The speaker experiences the realization that her childhood home, and the memories she has of it, are no longer the same. The physical house is essentially lost, and a great deal has changed over time.

I slept in a room in the roof,

the white planes of its ceiling

freckled with light from the sea,

Human Family

by Maya Angelou

‘Human Family’ by Maya Angelou expresses an incredibly relatable message about family. The poet speaks broadly about the world, unity, and how we are all connected to one another.

This poem effectively represents the concept of family by highlighting both diversity and unity within humanity. Angelou discusses physical differences like skin tones and emotional experiences like love and loss, showing how varied individual experiences collectively create a unified human experience. The poem’s repetition of “We are more alike, my friends, than we are unalike” reinforces the idea that despite our differences, we share fundamental similarities, capturing the essence of a global family connected by shared human experiences.

I note the obvious differences

in the human family.

Some of us are serious,

some thrive on comedy.

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Small-Scale Reflections on a Great House

by A. K. Ramanujan

‘Small-Scale Reflections on a Great House’ by A. K. Ramanujan is an incredible poem that uses a house and all the objects and memories, happy and sad, it contains to speak about a family’s personal history.

This is an image-rich poem that tells the story of how everything that comes into his house stays there. Or, if it leaves, how it will inevitably come back again.

Sometimes I think that nothing

that ever comes into this house

goes out. Things that come in everyday

to lose themselves among other things

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I Invite My Parents to a Dinner Party

by Chen Chen

‘I Invite My Parents to a Dinner Party’ by Chen navigates the struggle for LGBTQ+ acceptance within a traditional family.

In this poem, Chen Chen speaks about modern families, mainly focusing on the way they communicate or fail to do so. The speaker describes a dinner party that includes him, his boyfriend, and his parents. They have trouble with their son’s relationship, and the dinner does not go perfectly.

In the invitation, I tell them for the seventeenth time (the fourth in writing), that I am gay. In the invitation, I include a picture of my boyfriend & write, You’ve met him two times. But this time,

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Eating Together

by Li-Young Lee

‘Eating Together’ by Li-Young Lee is a beautiful contemporary poem about death. It uses a thoughtful simile and direct language.

The poem begins with the speaker using a matter-of-fact tone to describe his family’s meal. Their father is missing from the table, and it soon becomes clear that he’s passed away.

In the steamer is the trout   

seasoned with slivers of ginger,

two sprigs of green onion, and sesame oil.   

We shall eat it with rice for lunch,   

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The Myth of Music

by Rachel M. Harper

‘The Myth of Music’ by Rachel M. Harper describes the mythical power of music and its ability convey one’s generational and familial relationships. 

The speaker is interested in a particular type of music, that which has been given to her as an “oral history” by her family. It’s the melody of her inheritance. She recalls past experiences that gave her great peace, being with her family, and those that occur after that sadden her like her mother leaving.

If music can be passed on

like brown eyes or a strong

left hook, this melody

is my inheritance, lineage traced

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The Silver Flask

by John Montague

‘The Silver Flask’ by John Montague recounts the poet’s family reunion and their journey to Ireland after twenty years to celebrate Christmas.

Montague’s family and the relationship dynamics amongst them are at the upfront in this poem. His yearning for his dad and the kind of proximity he shares with him is different from his mom. In the case of the latter, Montague holds a grudge against her for abandoning him during his childhood. However, unlike the other poems, he disguises his resentment and tries to bridge the gap. Yet, none can overlook how he uses ‘our’ for his mother and ‘my’ for his father. Moreover, his mom is portrayed as quiet, regretful, and downhearted, and his father as vibrant and cheerful. Lastly, Montague expresses his happiness in being able to complete the ‘family circle’ after twenty years, but only poetically.

The family circle briefly restored

nearly twenty lonely years after

that last Christmas in Brooklyn,

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Topics: Life
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The Stick-Together Families

by Edgar Guest

‘The Stick-Together Families’ by Edgar Guest describes the main reason that some families, rich or poor, are happier than others. 

The poem begins by stating that the most “gladsome” families are those that stick together. They do not let circumstances separate them for any reason. If a family stays true to this way of being then, they will, rich or poor, be joyful. The speaker outlines how much better off “stick-together” families are than those who do not try to remain by one another’s side. It’s impossible for separated families to find the same love with one another.

The stick-together families are happier by far Than the brothers and the sisters who take separate highways are. The gladdest people living are the wholesome folks who make A circle at the fireside that no power but death can break.

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VII (My Parents…)

by Stephen Spender

‘My Parents’ by Stephen Spender is a poem based on bullying and the desire to make friends.

The speaker describes how his parents kept him away from other boys, trying to protect him from those they thought would harm him. They are ragged young boys who may be suffering from impoverished economic circumstances. Spender’s speaker makes it clear, through allusion and imagery, that his parents gave him a life that was far more privileged than what these ragged boys were dealing with. This is something he had a hard time appreciating as a child.

My parents kept me from children who were rough

Who threw words like stones and wore torn clothes

Their thighs showed through rags they ran in the street

And climbed cliffs and stripped by the country streams.

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Eden Rock

by Charles Causley

‘Eden Rock’ evokes nostalgia, depicting a timeless picnic with his parents, blending memory with longing for familial unity.

One of the important themes of this poem is family. This poem is about a family picnic beside a stream when the speaker was a child. The way the speaker describes his parents’ activities reveals his admiration and love for them.

They are waiting for me somewhere beyond Eden Rock:

My father, twenty-five, in the same suit

Of Genuine Irish Tweed, his terrier Jack

Still two years old and trembling at his feet.

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Long Distance II

by Tony Harrison

‘Long Distance II’ by Tony Harrison is an elegiac poem that describes a father’s way of grieving the death of his wife and his child’s reaction to his futile actions.

This piece explores the theme of family and how each individual stays by the other’s side in their times of need. For instance, the son stays by his father at his weakest moments and supports him while he grieves the death of his beloved wife.

Though my mother was already two years dead

Dad kept her slippers warming by the gas,

put hot water bottles her side of the bed

and still went to renew her transport pass.

 

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The Lost Generation

by Jonathan Reed

Jonathan Reed’s ‘The Lost Generation’ is a palindrome poem that utilizes an innovative approach in order to dictate the future course of the present generation.

This piece explores the importance of family as well as human relationships. According to the poet, families stayed together a while back for some reason. The present generation has to understand that and prioritize their families over work, money, and ambition.

I'm part of a Lost Generation

and I refuse to believe that

I can change the world.

I realize this may be a shock, but

"Happiness comes from within"

is a lie, and "Money will make me happy"

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Death of a Young Woman

by Gillian Clarke

‘Death of a Young Woman’ by Gillian Clarke depicts how a loved one’s death lets a person free from their inward, endless suffering.

In this piece, Clarke depicts what a family goes through when their loved one battles death and gets defeated.

He wept for her and for the hard tasks

He had lovingly done, for the short,

Fierce life she had lived in the white bed,

For the burden he had put down for good.

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The Red Hat

by Rachel Hadas

‘The Red Hat’ by Rachel Hadas provides a poignant scene that captures the bittersweet experience of raising a child.

Family is touched on in the form of the boy's parents, who admirably and honestly struggle with the difficulty of giving your child more freedom. Hadas' treatment of the couple is affectionately lucid in its introspection. With the second stanza serving as a powerful attempt to grasp at the ways in which a child growing up can feel like a parent diminishing.

It started before Christmas. Now our son

officially walks to school alone.

Semi-alone, it's accurate to say:

I or his father track him on his way.

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Follower

by Seamus Heaney

‘Follower’ has many of the aspects which characterize the poems of Seamus Heaney. Having grown up in an area of Northern Ireland that greatly valued family, hard work, and farming, Heaney’s poems often reflect all of these values at once.

In 'Follower,' family is central as the poem explores the relationship between father and son through themes of admiration and legacy. It depicts the son's journey from idolizing his father's agricultural expertise to understanding his own place within the family legacy. The poem captures the complexities of familial bonds, highlighting the dynamics of influence, admiration, and inevitable generational change.

My father worked with a horse-plough,

His shoulders globed like a full sail strung

Between the shafts and the furrow.

The horses strained at his clicking tongue.

Seamus Heaney iconPoems about Family FAQs

The best way to write a family poem is to focus on one’s own experiences. Look back at meaningful memories, important periods in one’s life, and relationships that define how you think about what family is.

Some writers choose to write about families because they have an issue with their own they want to express and try to come to terms with. Others may want to celebrate the influence their mother, father, etc., had on them in their most formative years.

Family poems can take the form of any poem. They might be written in the form of a sonnet, ballad, villanelle, or just stick to free verse.

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