Letting Go

12 Must-Read Poems about Letting Go

Poems about letting go often explore themes of release, acceptance, and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional challenges of moving on from relationships, grief, or past experiences. These poems highlight the strength it takes to release what no longer serves us, find peace in acceptance, and embrace new beginnings.

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Let Them

by Cassie Phillips

‘Let Them’ is a poem in which the poet offers their advice about relationships. They urge the reader to know their value and value others.

Letting go is very important to this poem. The second half of the poem deals with the opposite - appreciating a good relationship - but the first half looks at the idea of letting go of a negative relationship. The poet suggests that this can be almost a passive thing, just letting it happen rather than pursuing it. However, the poet believes that by just letting these things happen, by simply letting go, the reader will find that the results are overwhelmingly positive for them.

Just let them.

If they want to choose something or someone over you, LET THEM.

If they want to go weeks without talking to you, LET THEM.

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So We’ll Go No More a Roving

by Lord Byron

‘So We’ll Go No More a Roving’ is one of Lord Byron’s best works, delving into the emotional toll of aging and the waning of youthful vigor.

This poem expresses a quiet and mature acceptance of change. The speaker is not fighting against what is ending but instead choosing to step away with understanding. The act of “roving” no longer feels possible, even if the heart still wants it. This idea of letting go is not shown as a defeat but as something necessary. It captures a moment when someone realizes they must move forward, even if it means leaving something meaningful behind.

So, we'll go no more a roving

   So late into the night,

Though the heart be still as loving,

   And the moon be still as bright.

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Don’t Think Twice, It’s All Right

by Bob Dylan

‘Don’t Think Twice, It’s All Right,’ by Bob Dylan, is a song that explores his feelings about his girlfriend at the time moving abroad.

The acceptance that Dylan seems to have reached in the lyrics to this song suggests that he is letting go of the relationship now and moving away from it - indeed, he makes several references throughout the song to the road that he is now traveling on. However, there is also a sense of bitterness in the lyrics which would suggest that maybe he hasn't fully moved on.

It ain’t no use to sit and wonder why, babe

It don’t matter, anyhow

An’ it ain’t no use to sit and wonder why, babe

If you don’t know by now

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Catrin

by Gillian Clarke

‘Catrin’ portrays the intense, loving struggle between a mother and daughter, highlighting conflict and deep connection.

Letting go is not easy for the speaker in this poem. She remembers how it started when her daughter asked for more freedom. Even if she knows it is part of growing up, it still hurts. The poem shows that letting go is not one big moment, but something that happens in pieces. The mother feels the rope between them tighten, and even though she holds on, she knows things are changing. The pain of letting go is gently shown.

I can remember you, child,

As I stood in a hot, white

Room at the window watching

The people and cars taking

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Sonnet 2

by Philip Sidney

A slow and painful surrender to love is at the heart of ‘Sonnet 2’ by Sir Philip Sidney, where the speaker loses his freedom and masks his suffering through carefully crafted verse.

By the end of the poem, it becomes clear that the speaker cannot let go of what he feels. Even when he knows love has become a burden, he still holds onto it. He tries to make himself believe everything is fine. Instead of walking away, he uses what is left of his mind to cover up the truth. This shows how hard it can be to let go of something, even when we know it is hurting us.

Not at first sight, nor with a dribbèd shot,

Love gave the wound which while I breathe will bleed:

But known worth did in mine of time proceed,

Till by degrees it had full conquest got.

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Summer

by Louise Glück

Louise Glück’s ‘Summer’ reflects on love’s evolution, from passion to quiet acceptance, using nature to mirror these changes through the seasons.

There’s a quiet sense of letting go in this poem. It’s not about giving up on love, but about accepting that it isn’t as intense as it used to be. The couple seems to understand that passion fades and that’s okay. Letting go of what their relationship once was allows them to move forward into a new phase. It feels calm and honest, not bitter or regretful.

Remember the days of our first happiness,

how strong we were, how dazed by passion,

lying all day, then all night in the narrow bed,

sleeping there, eating there too: it was summer,

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If You Forget Me

by Pablo Neruda

‘If You Forget Me’ speaks directly to the speaker’s lover, warning her what will happen if she falls out of love with him.

Even though the poem is filled with emotion, it also carries a calm readiness to let go. The speaker is not begging to be remembered. He says he will let the relationship fade if she does not feel the same anymore. There is sadness in that, but also a strong acceptance. Letting go here does not mean giving up. It means allowing space for love to either survive or fall away without bitterness.

If suddenly

you forget me

do not look for me,

for I shall already have forgotten you.

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Four Movements in the Scale of Two

by Owen Sheers

‘Four Movements in the Scale of Two’ traces a relationship’s lifecycle through musical metaphors, from harmony to dissonance.

As the relationship falls apart, the speaker finds himself in the difficult process of letting go. He doesn’t fully understand what caused the end, but he feels the loss deeply. There’s no big fight or dramatic scene—just a slow unraveling that leaves him unsure of how to move forward. The poem captures how letting go can sometimes mean accepting something you don’t understand, and learning to live with memories instead of holding on to what once was.

Cut to us, an overhead shot, early morning,

Lying in bed, foetus curled,

back to naked back.

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Where the Picnic Was

by Thomas Hardy

‘Where the Picnic Was’ mourns lost connections and times, contrasting warm past summers with the cold, lonely present of loss.

The speaker visits a place that meant a lot to him, but he also knows that he cannot bring the past back. The fire is out, the friends are gone, and one of them has passed away. He does not fight against the changes. Instead, he quietly accepts them. The poem becomes a way for him to let go of what once was, even as he remembers it with care and quiet sorrow.

Where we made the fire,

In the summer time,

Of branch and briar

On the hill to the sea

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Welcome To Holland

by Emily Perl Kingsley

‘Welcome to Holland’ by Emily Perl Kingsley is an essay that looks at life with a disabled child, using a travel metaphor to show how the unexpected can yield positive experiences.

The author discusses how they have learned to let go of the dreams that they once had and to accept their new situation. They suggest that dwelling on what might have been, rather than accepting what now is, will mean that they miss out on good times that they should be enjoying.

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this……

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Flirting with lust

by Pierre Alex Jeanty

‘Flirting with lust’ by Pierre Alex Jeanty is a moving depiction of how a woman feels after her relationship ended. This poem centers on the theme of love vs lust.

You miss his touch, the way his hands held you, the way his lips became one with yours,
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Pad, Pad

by Stevie Smith

‘Pad, Pad’ is written by the English poet Florence Margaret Smith, also known as Stevie Smith. This poem deals with the separation of two lovers and how the speaker feels long after the break-up.

I always remember your beautiful flowers
And the beautiful kimono you wore
When you sat on the couch
With that tigerish crouch

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