10 Timeless Poems about Starting Over

Poems about starting over capture the transformative journey of beginning anew. These verses often express the courage to leave behind the past, embrace change, and embark on a fresh chapter in life.

Poets use evocative language to convey the emotions of hope, uncertainty, and the growth potential of starting over. These poems may reflect the sense of liberation and freedom accompanying letting go of old burdens and embracing new opportunities.

Through their powerful words, poems about starting over inspire readers to embrace resilience, adaptability.

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Home Body

by Rupi Kaur

‘Home Body’ reminds us that everything we need for fulfilment already resides within us. Instead of seeking validation or happiness externally, the poem encourages us to look inward.

The poem addresses starting over by urging self-reflection and renewal. Kaur’s suggestion to “dive into the well of my body” represents a return to self, a fresh beginning where everything we need is already within. It’s about shedding external expectations and focusing on personal growth, offering a path for new beginnings grounded in self-discovery.

i dive into the well of my body

and end up in another world

everything i need

already exists in me

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Penelope

by Carol Ann Duffy

‘Penelope’ by Carol Ann Duffy depicts how Odysseus’s wife, Penelope, changes while she waits for him to come back from the Trojan War. She becomes a new, happier person.

After her husband, Odysseus, left her to go fight in the Trojan War, Penelope had to start over. She made a new life for herself, eventually setting aside her widow's veil and asserting her freedom.

At first, I looked along the road

hoping to see him saunter home

among the olive trees,

a whistle for the dog

who mourned him with his warm head on my knees.

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The Map-Woman

by Carol Ann Duffy

‘The Map-Woman’ by Duffy explores the deep imprint of past and place on personal identity, depicted through a metaphor of a female body.

The woman in the poem desperately wants to start over and create a new life, free from her past. She moves, changes her surroundings, and tries to cover up the reminders of her hometown. However, she learns that starting over is not as simple as leaving a place behind. The poem shows that even when you try to begin again, your past will always be part of you.

A woman's skin was a map of the town

where she'd grown from a child.

When she went out, she covered it up

with a dress, with a shawl, with a hat,

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The Wild Iris

by Louise Glück

‘The Wild Iris’ by Louise Glück is told from the perspective of a flower. It comprehends death differently than humanity does and shares its understanding.

The poem carries a strong message about starting over, showing that even after pain, there is always a new beginning. The speaker remembers being buried but does not stay in that place. Instead, they push forward and return to the world. This can represent healing, personal growth, or simply the idea that nothing stays the same forever. It reminds us that no matter how hard things get, there is always a chance to begin again.

At the end of my suffering

there was a door.

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Mr Bleaney

by Philip Larkin

‘Mr Bleaney’ by Philip Larkin, written in 1955, relays the journey of a speaker as they settle into their new home and new life.

This poem features a speaker whose life is starting anew, but perhaps not as one would imagine. They assume the role of a previous tenant as they move into a new home, finding that their new life is the opposite of everything they desire.

That how we live measures our own nature, 

And at his age having no more to show

Than one hired box should make him pretty sure

He warranted no better, I don't know.

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Refusal

by Maya Angelou

‘Refusal’ by Maya Angelou is a powerful love poem that speaks of one person’s dedication to another, as they find each other in every life.

Vaguely alluded to is the theme of starting over. The speaker hopes that when her life starts over, she'll be with the same person she's with now, and they'll get to continue their relationship.

Beloved,

In what other lives or lands

Have I known your lips

Your Hands

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Divorce

by Jackie Kay

‘Divorce’ by Jackie Kay is about parent-child relationships and how children are impacted by adults’ issues. The speaker is a teenager who is struggling to contend with her parent’s relationship with one another. 

I did not promise

to stay with you till death do us part, or

anything like that,

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Elegy V: His Picture

by John Donne

‘Elegy V’ by John Donne is addressed to the poet’s lover. He asks her to accept him when he returns, despite the fact that he’s going to look and act differently.

Here take my picture; though I bid farewell

Thine, in my heart, where my soul dwells, shall dwell.

'Tis like me now, but I dead, 'twill be more

When we are shadows both, than 'twas before.

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Holy Sonnet II

by John Donne

‘Holy Sonnet II’ by John Donne is the second in a series of religious sonnets that Donne is well-known for. This poem is directed to God and explores a speaker’s concerns about their fate. 

As due by many titles I resign

Myself to thee, O God. First I was made

By Thee; and for Thee, and when I was decay’d

Thy blood bought that, the which before was Thine.

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Sonnet 35

by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

‘Sonnet 35’ by Elizabeth Barrett Browning contains the speaker’s worries about life changes as she embarks on a new life with her lover.

If I leave all for thee, wilt thou exchange

And be all to me? Shall I never miss

Home-talk and blessing and the common kiss

That comes to each in turn, nor count it strange,

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