15+ Complex Poems about Trust Issues

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Poems centered on trust issues dive deep into the scars left by shattered trust. They intricately examine the hesitations and reservations that inevitably surface after past betrayals or disappointments.

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The psychological aftermath of betrayal often serves as fertile ground for the cultivation of trust issues, casting a shadow of caution over one’s perception of the world. For instance, if one has endured betrayal in past relationships, it’s natural to approach new connections with guardedness. The relentless cycle of disappointment with oneself can erode confidence, fostering an internal struggle with trusting one’s abilities.

This poetry shows how trust issues reverberate in life, tarnishing relationships with both oneself and others. Trust issues with oneself can damage one’s confidence and self-worth. Similarly, in relationships, a lack of trust can sow discord, leading to conflicts and breakdowns in communication.

These verses encapsulate the arduous journey of grappling with the reluctance to open one’s heart anew and the haunting fear of vulnerability. Through the medium of poetry, individuals navigating trust issues may find solace in a shared journey of healing and the gradual reclamation of faith in the inherent goodness of others or one’s self-worth despite the scars of the past.

Nightmare Begins Responsibility

by Michael S. Harper

In ‘Nightmare Begins Responsibility,’ Michael S. Harper shares the heartbreaking experience of losing his two sons at the time of birth.

The speaker remembers the emotional turmoil of losing his newborn son. He remembers being extremely helpless while having trust issues with the white doctor as he operated on his son. The speaker's distrust emerges from vulnerability, extreme grief, and fear as he is on the verge of losing his newborn baby. The rapidity in lines, like 'distrusting-white-hands-picking-baboon-light / on his son who will not make his second night,' and 'distrusting white-pink mending paperthin / silkened end hairs, distrusting tubes' accentuate the manifestation of the speaker fear in trust issues with the doctor. Ultimately, he does accept that the doctor, indeed, worked tirelessly the entire night.

I place these numbed wrists to the pane

watching white uniforms whisk over

him in the tube-kept

prison

Home Burial

by Robert Frost

‘Home Burial’ by Robert Frost depicts a mother grieving for her deceased son and her broader conflicts with her husband.

Trust issues between the husband and wife fuel miscommunication, ultimately leading to their home's burial. The husband's attempt to console his wife is met with mistrust, as she feels he cannot comprehend her grief. Likewise, the husband struggles to articulate his emotions. The couple's belief in gender stereotypes exacerbates the trust issues; for instance, the husband thinks, 'A man must partly give up being a man / With women-folk.' The wife responds with 'I don't know rightly whether any man can' to her husband's questions. This leaves the husband feeling irked by the wife's grief while she doesn't trust his attempts at consolation.

He saw her from the bottom of the stairs

Before she saw him. She was starting down,

Looking back over her shoulder at some fear.

She took a doubtful step and then undid it

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Sonnet 35

by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

‘Sonnet 35’ by Elizabeth Barrett Browning contains the speaker’s worries about life changes as she embarks on a new life with her lover.

The speaker expresses leaving everything behind for her beloved, but there's a lingering doubt whether he'll reciprocate fully. The uncertainty of whether he'll fill the void left by those who've passed away shows her apprehension and subtle trust issues about stepping into this new life. The yearning for reassurance and a plea for trust to bridge the gap between fear and love hints at the underlying trust issues that emerge before embarking on a life-changing journey.

If I leave all for thee, wilt thou exchange

And be all to me? Shall I never miss

Home-talk and blessing and the common kiss

That comes to each in turn, nor count it strange,

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A Jet Ring Sent

by John Donne

‘A Jet Ring Sent’ by John Donne describes how the speaker’s beloved returned his jet-black promise ring and how he felt after that.

Returning the ring signifies a breach of trust, amplifying the speaker's skepticism about the durability of relationships. He questions the ring's symbolism, pondering whether it represents something disposable rather than enduring love. Trust issues cause the speaker's struggle to part with the ring despite its flaws, as he is wary of being hurt again yet hesitant to let go of the memories. Ultimately, the poem portrays the complexities of trust in relationships and the lingering scars of betrayal.

Thou art not so black as my heart,

    Nor half so brittle as her heart, thou art ;

What would'st thou say ? shall both our properties by thee be spoke,

    —Nothing more endless, nothing sooner broke?

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Because I Liked You Better

by A. E. Housman

‘Because I Liked You Better’ by A. E. Housman is a love poem that taps on the theme of unrequited love. Like his “A Shropshire Lad” poems, it also touches on the theme of death.

'Because I Liked You Better' explores trust issues through the strained promise to forget a deep affection. The speaker’s adherence to societal expectations over personal feelings reflects a lack of trust in expressing true emotions. The formal parting and enduring internal conflict signify the mistrust between societal norms and personal desires, highlighting the struggle to reconcile genuine love with imposed restraints.

Because I liked you better

Than suits a man to say,

It irked you, and I promised

To throw the thought away.

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There was a time when my cheek burned

by Emily Brontë

‘There was a time when my cheek burned’ by Emily Brontë describes the speaker’s passion for justice and how the world disappointed them. 

As life unfolds, the speaker encounters the harsh reality of human fallibility and deceit, which leads to disillusionment from youthful idealism about trust in truth and justice. When one experiences the prevalence of deception worldwide, it breeds trust issues and a guarded outlook characterized by skepticism and caution. Ultimately, the poem shapes a nuanced understanding of trust issues, marked by a perpetual carefulness born from disillusionment.

There was a time when my cheek burned

To give such scornful fiends the lie;

Ungoverned nature madly spurned

The law that bade it not defy.

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If it were not too late!

by Stephen Spender

‘If it were not too late!’ follows Stephen Spender’s journey as he processes an emotional betrayal and the opportunities he has lost.

Following the poet's breakup with his ex-lover, he wrote this poem in which he describes his newfound trust issues. In the final two stanzas, the poet highlights how the conclusion of their relationship has fundamentally changed him as a person. He struggles with feelings of betrayal and is reluctant to open himself up to love again, fearful that he will be unexpectedly hurt once again. This poem emphasises the lasting effects breakups can have on a person, unwilling to put their trust in others again.

If it were not too late!

If I could mould my thought

To the curved form of that woman

With gleaming eyes, raven hair,

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Religio Laici

by John Dryden

‘Religio Laici’ by John Dryden is a reflective discourse in unadorned verse that explores faith, reason, and the complexities of religious beliefs.

The poem delves into trust issues by highlighting the challenges and uncertainties inherent in religious faith and interpretation. It questions the reliability of religious authorities and the potential for misinterpretation of scripture. Through skepticism and inquiry, the poem prompts readers to reevaluate their trust in traditional religious institutions and doctrines, urging them to seek a deeper understanding and trust in their own interpretations.

Dim, as the borrow'd beams of moon and stars

To lonely, weary, wand'ring travellers,

Is reason to the soul; and as on high,

Those rolling fires discover but the sky

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Sonnet 138

by William Shakespeare

Sonnet 138, ‘When my love swears that she is made of truth,’ explores the complex dynamics of love, deception, and trust in a relationship. 

The relationship in the sonnet reeks of trust issues as the speaker doesn't trust his beloved's faithfulness and is convinced that she lies to him, and he also lies to her; however, they both are aware of lies but have accepted them as truths to keep their love going as if confrontation will end it. We never hear the beloved's perspective, but the speaker seems scared of losing the love due to inherent trust issues.

When my love swears that she is made of truth,

I do believe her though I know she lies,

That she might think me some untutored youth,

Unlearned in the world's false subtleties.

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Love After Love

by Derek Walcott

‘Love After Love’ by Derek Walcott is a poem, that is presented in the form of a person offering advice to someone who is distressed.

The poem subtly addresses trust issues that one has with oneself, urging readers to trust and embrace themselves. The line, 'You will love again the stranger who was your self,' imbues confidence, reassuring readers that they can overcome doubts and reconnect with their authentic selves. By advocating self-acceptance, the poem encourages letting go of mistrust toward oneself while building self-worth and confidence.

The time will come

when, with elation

you will greet yourself arriving

at your own door, in your own mirror

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Farewell, Ungrateful Traitor!

by John Dryden

‘Farewell, Ungrateful Traitor!’ by John Dryden swears off men and relationships. The speaker asserts that men are incapable of being truthful or loving as much as women.

The poem deals with trust issues by illustrating how the speaker’s experience of betrayal leads to a lack of faith in romantic relationships. The breach of trust makes it difficult for her to believe in the sincerity of future partners. This mistrust affects her decision to remain alone.

Farewell ungrateful traitor,

Farewell my perjured swain,

Let never injured creature

Believe a man again.

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Matins (Forgive Me If I Say I Love You)

by Louise Glück

‘Matins (Forgive Me If I Say I Love You)’ is a well thought out piece about someone who is eager to love but has not been given anything to work with.

Honesty, a situation where everything is brought into the open and bared, is what the speaker in Louise Glück's ‘Matins (Forgive Me if I Say I Love You)’ wants. This is the only way for love to develop and thrive, otherwise, the confusion bred by the mysteries and secrecy continues; so do the trust issues.

Forgive me if I say I love you: the powerful

are always lied to since the weak are always

driven by panic. I cannot love

what I can’t conceive, and you disclose  

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I Was Not False To Thee

by Caroline Norton

‘I Was Not False to Thee’ by Caroline Norton is a poem about loneliness and a speaker’s feelings of unequal treatment.

The poem hints at trust issues within the relationship. The narrator's observation that others court their beloved despite witnessing the narrator's suffering implies a lack of trust or doubts regarding the beloved's faithfulness.

I was not false to thee, and yet

My cheek alone looked pale;

My weary eye was dim and wet,

My strength began to fail.

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Part III: The Merchant’s Tale

by Geoffrey Chaucer

This section of ‘The Merchant’s Tale’ by Geoffrey Chaucer introduces January’s friends and their opinions on marriage.

It is clear from this section of 'The Merchant's Tale' that Justinus has severe trust issues concerning women. Although he is not a major character throughout the poem, his beliefs foreshadow the later events of January's life. Justinus expresses that a young wife will always put a man at risk of becoming a cuckold. He is unable to see past this trust issue, believing that it is an inevitability.

Diverse men diversely hym tolde

Of mariage manye ensamples olde.

Somme blamed it, somme preysed it, certeyn,

But atte laste, shortly for to seyn, 

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The Other Side

by Seamus Heaney

Heaney’s ‘The Other Side’ explores the divisions across Ireland’s sectarian divide through evolving neighborly relations.

One of the things that makes the relationship, and indeed the wider conflict, so difficult to resolve was the fact that neither side trusted the other. As we see in this poem, both sides of the debate view the other with distrust and do not initially make an effort to understand one another.

Thigh-deep in sedge and marigolds,

a neighbour laid his shadow

on the stream, vouching

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