Missing Someone

15+ Significant Poems about Missing Someone

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Poetry about missing someone resonates with a profound sense of absence and longing. These verses often explore the pain of separation, the longing for reunion, or the echoing silence left by someone’s departure.

The poet uses vivid imagery and emotive language to convey the visceral feeling of missing someone, striking a chord with anyone who has ever yearned for a loved one’s presence.

These poems offer an exploration of absence, capturing the profound impact that individuals have on our lives even when they’re no longer present.

A Memory

by Lola Ridge

‘A Memory’ by Lola Ridge describes a speaker’s memories of a specific emotional night she spent with the listener on the shore of a tropic sea.

The speaker looks back on the moment, the sounds of the town, and the surf on the beach. It’s not clear exactly what her relationship is to the place, but it is clear that her time there, along with her lover, is temporary. The tides flowing in and out come to symbolize that fact. Ridge’s speaker is looking back on this time in an effort to remember it better.

I remember

The crackle of the palm trees

Over the mooned white roofs of the town…

The shining town…

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The Sea of Glass

by Ezra Pound

Pound’s ‘The Sea of Glass’ is an image-rich poem that depicts lovers meeting amid rainbows in the sea. 

This poem is only six lines long. In those lines, the first-person speaker describes looking outside and seeing the sea “roofed over with rainbows.” In the middle of each, he goes on, two lovers came together and departed. These beautiful images speak to a broader feeling of longing and how universal loving and losing is.

I looked and saw a sea

                               roofed over with rainbows,

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Dove, Interrupted

by Lucie Brock-Broido

‘Dove, Interrupted’ is a poem consisting of complex emotions and a heightened sense of being. Though the self seems “opaque”, Brock-Broido presents it translucently.

This is a beautiful contemporary love poem that brings together disparate seeming images only to conclude with the phrase “I miss your heart, my / heart.” After a series of medieval, traveling, and animal-related imagery, these clear and direct lines are even more effective. Since nothing in this poem is straightforward or easily interrupted, it is left up to the reader to try to uncover the connections between “a miniature priest,’ “the rabbit Maurice,” Versailles, and Vienne.

Don’t do that when you are dead like this, I said, Arguably still squabbling about the word inarguably. I haunt Versailles, poring through the markets of the medieval.

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The Anactoria Poem

by Sappho

‘The Anactoria Poem’ is a widely read love poem in which Sappho uses the story of Helen of Troy to speak on the nature of beauty. 

There are few, if any, poems that better express the feeling of longing for the presence of someone that is absent than this poem. Sappho's declaration that she would rather see the simple sight of Anactoria walking than thousands of soldiers in armour emphasizes her longing for her.

Some say thronging cavalry, some say foot soldiers,

others call a fleet the most beautiful of

sights the dark earth offers, but I say it's what-

            ever you love best.

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When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

by David Romano

Romano’s ‘When Tomorrow Starts Without Me’ offers solace in grief, exploring love and afterlife, reassures that loved ones remain forever.

The pain of missing someone is powerfully conveyed, reflecting the void left by the narrator’s absence. The poem captures this longing with tender reflections on shared memories and the ache of unspoken words. Yet, it tempers this sorrow with reassurance, reminding readers that memories and love remain, easing the burden of separation.

When tomorrow starts without me

And I’m not here to see

If the sun should rise and find your eyes

All filled with tears for me

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The Wife’s Lament

by Anonymous

‘The Wife’s Lament’ by Anonymous is a multi-layered poem in which a speaker expresses her deep sorrow over her husband’s departure.

The poem comes from the perspective of a woman, someone who has lost her husband and is mourning and missing the life she once knew.

I make this song of myself, deeply sorrowing,

my own life’s journey. I am able to tell

all the hardships I’ve suffered since I grew up,

but new or old, never worse than now –

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Bei Hennef

by D.H. Lawrence

Lawrence’s ‘Bei Hennef’ describes the effect twilight has to clear a speaker’s mind and make him see the strength of his love. 

This is a lovely poem in which the speaker expresses the simplicity of his love with his partner and wonders why life can’t be as simple as their connection. He explains how their pure love for one another is often influenced by the little irritation,” anxieties, and pains” that occur every day. But, in the end, they are one another’s perfect matches. They are “night” and “Day,” “the wish,” and the “fulfillment.” He wonders why they have to “suffer in spite of this.”

The little river twittering in the twilight,

The wan, wondering look of the pale sky,

            This is almost bliss.

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Romance Sonámbulo

by Federico García Lorca

‘Romance Sonámbulo’ by Federico García Lorca is a mournful and beautiful dream sequence in which the poet longs for something unattainable. 

The speaker in this poem describes a woman with gree hair and skin, using striking images to ensure that readers remember this piece for a long time to come.

Green, how I want you green.

Green wind. Green branches.

The ship out on the sea

and the horse on the mountain.

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Long Distance II

by Tony Harrison

‘Long Distance II’ by Tony Harrison is an elegiac poem that describes a father’s way of grieving the death of his wife and his child’s reaction to his futile actions.

The father in Harrison's poem deliberately invests himself in keeping his wife’s things ready including but not limited to keeping her slippers warm, putting hot water bottles by her side of the bed, and renewing her transport pass. He is sure that soon she will unlock the rusted lock and “end his grief.” This shows how badly he misses his dead wife.

Though my mother was already two years dead

Dad kept her slippers warming by the gas,

put hot water bottles her side of the bed

and still went to renew her transport pass.

 

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Time does not bring relief; you all have lied

by Edna St. Vincent Millay

‘Time does not bring relief; you all have lied’ by Edna St. Vincent Millay tells of an emotionally damaged woman, seeking relief from heartbreak. 

This is a well-loved Edna St. Vincent Millay poem in which the speaker describes her emotional damage and how despite what people say, time has not improved her circumstances. She expresses anger over this fact. She wants her longing for this love to have dissipated but it hasn’t. She explains that he’s still haunting her heart and mind. No matter where she goes or what she does, he’s there.
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After

by Philip Bourke Marston

‘After’ by Marston captures the eternal ache of loss, where brief joys transition to lasting sorrow, reflecting on grief’s permanence.

Throughout the text, Marston talks about how badly he or the poetic persona misses his loved one. His longing to have some time with her displays how badly he misses her presence. Her absence causes immense pain in his heart.

A LITTLE time for laughter,

— A little time to sing,

— A little time to kiss and cling,

And no more kissing after.

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I Cannot Live With You

by Emily Dickinson

‘I cannot live with You’ by Emily Dickinson is a poem about marriage. The speaker spends the lines declaring why she can’t “live with you” and her various related concerns.

In this poem, the speaker addresses her lover, taking them through all the possible outcomes of their relationship. She’s determined that anything they attempt is going to end in despair. She suggests that she cares about this person and perhaps even misses them when they aren’t there, but she also doesn’t want to be discarded and have to live with that fear. She’d rather avoid love altogether than risk losing it.

I cannot live with You –

It would be Life –

And Life is over there –

Behind the Shelf

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Marie Curie to Her Husband

by Sujata Bhatt

‘Marie Curie to Her Husband’ imagines how the eponymous scientist might’ve coped with the sudden death of her spouse.

The anguish and mourning the speaker endures in the poem are both a result of their separation from their husband. As a result, the most powerful emotion in the poem is the intense sense that someone dear is being missed elicited by their words. The memories of flowers, bicycle rides, and walks point to this yearning for a past in which they were together. By the end of the poem, Bhatt has illustrated how missing someone so passionately can lead you to carry them around with you everywhere for the rest of your life.

The equations are luminous now.

They glimmer across my page,

across the walls

across the pillow

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Death of a Teacher

by Carol Ann Duffy

‘Death of a Teacher’ by Carol Ann Duffy is a moving poem. In it, the poet discusses a personal loss she suffered and how it affected her.

Duffy depicts her experiences with a teacher that helped her succeed as a young writer. She alludes to memories of the past and everything she’s learned with this person. Although her teacher has died, she knows the world continues to move on without them. Even through her sorrow for this loss, she’s able to stop and consider everything this person gave her.

The big trees outside are into their poker game again,

shuffling and dealing, turning, folding, their leaves

 

drifting down to the lawn, floating away, ace high,

on a breeze. You died yesterday.

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Longing

by Sara Teasdale

In ‘Longing,’ readers will find a brief discussion of life after death and the future of one’s body and soul. 

This is a short and fairly simple poem that uses powerful images to convey a speaker’s opinion about her life, what she missed out on, and what still moves her. In the lines of ‘Longing,’ the speaker says that she does not feel sorrow for her soul for it can “live a thousand times.” She is sorry for her body “that must go” back to dust without the experiences it longed for.

I am not sorry for my soul

That it must go unsatisfied,

For it can live a thousand times,

Eternity is deep and wide.

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