Epitaph poems are short texts honoring the deceased, inscribed on their tombstones. These can be remembrances, commemorations, or even brief narratives about the deceased.
While they are by nature concise due to space limitations, epitaphs attempt to encapsulate a person’s life or virtues in a poignant manner. They can be solemn, humorous, reflective, or inspiring, serving both as a farewell to the departed and a reflection for the living.
Stephen Spender confronts the human cost of war, questions of legacy, and the importance of life in ‘War Photograph’.
Where the sun strikes the rock and
The rock plants its shadowed foot
And the breeze distracts the grass and the fern frond,
Written when he was thirty years old, ‘Requiem’ is a poem wherein Robert Louis Stevenson writes his own epitaph. Often dogged by ill health, his own mortality often influenced his writing.
Under the wide and starry sky,
Dig the grave and let me lie.
Glad did I live and gladly die,
And I laid me down with a will.
‘Anne Rutledge’ by Edgar Lee Masters is an epitaph based on the life of someone who knew and loved Abraham Lincoln in her youth.
Out of me unworthy and unknown
The vibrations of deathless music;
“With malice toward none, with charity for all.”
Out of me the forgiveness of millions toward millions,
‘Epitaph’ by Merrit Malloy is a beautiful poem about the good that can come out of death. The speaker wants their memory used to make the world a better place.
When I die
Give what’s left of me away
To children
And old me that wait to die.
‘Epitaph on a Tyrant’ by W.H. Auden is a thoughtful poem written at the beginning of WWII. The piece describes a tyrant’s beliefs and his power over everything around him.
And the poetry he invented was easy to understand;
He knew human folly like the back of his hand,
‘Afterglow’ by Helen Lowrie Marshall is a popular funeral poem. It describes a speaker’s hope that they’re remembered fondly and warmly.
I'd like the memory of me
To be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow
Of smiles when life is done.
Masters’ ‘Fiddler Jones’ highlights how following one’s passion, no matter what it is, is always worthwhile and helps lead a life without any regrets. As the title says, this poem is about a wayward fiddler devoted to his passion.
Where is Old Fiddler Jones
Who played with life all his ninety years,
Braving the sleet with bared breast,
Drinking, rioting, thinking neither of wife nor kin,
Written forty years after the death of Queen Elizabeth I, Anne Bradstreet’s ode to the Queen is filled with praise and gushing appreciation for the near-legendary ruler as her achievements are considered, as well as the love that her people had for her.
Although great Queen, thou now in silence lie,
Yet thy loud Herald Fame, doth to the sky
Thy wondrous worth proclaim, in every clime,
And so has vow’d, whilst there is world or time.
‘How Did You Die?’ by Edmund Vance Cooke is a rhyming poem that tries to impart an idealized view of perseverance in life.
Did you tackle that trouble that came your way
With a resolute heart and cheerful?
Or hide your face from the light of day
With a craven soul and fearful?
‘Teeth’ by Jackie Kay explores the dehumanization and lasting trauma caused by Joy Gardner’s death, told through her mother’s grief and her child’s trauma.
This is X who has all her own teeth.
Her mother is horrified by this.Look into her mouth. She still has them.
Perfect pearls. Milk stones. Pure ivory.
In Housman’s ‘XII: An Epitaph,’ readers will hear from a speaker who knows he’s about to die and is happy to accept his fate.
Stay, if you list, O passer by the way;
Yet night approaches; better not to stay.